Laura Enzor

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The Dating Game

WARNING: Dating post divorce can bring on feelings of doubt, disempowerment, dread and disconnection.

Woes about your business, your kids, your health or your finances can take a back seat, when you're single OR single WITH children: your gears can easily switch to focusing on A GUY you just met. It's exciting for sure.

If this is your situation read on, because "I'm talking to you" (said in a Robert Dinero-ish voice.)

Let me guess; every day, since he walked into your world, life has felt like an emotional roller coaster initially butterflies in the belly and seeing each other every night, but then it switches gears, and inside you’re head, there are voices screaming:-

-I’m not good enough, I guess?

-Why can’t he be more available?

-Why can’t I read his mind?

-Should I text him or not?

-Does he even like me?

-Is he even worrying about this?

And the loop of stress and struggle continues.

But now it’s not just about HIM. The GAME starts to get complicated...

This emotional mess has spilled into other areas of your life, too.

-You’re not concentrating at work

-You’re turning down girls night because you choose to wallow in worry and "what if's"

-You’re isolated in this drama

-You take out some frustration on your kiddos UGH!

Let me tell ya something sista. You owe it to yourself to clear your mind,

take it down a notch in the overthinking department.

Take a breath.

Be kind to yourself.

Stop blaming yourself.

And most of all:

STOP expecting someone else to be different.

There I said it.

And you already know it. Right?

But it’s still a hard cycle to STOP. And it's an important cycle to stop...

It’s time to Bring Back the Magic in your life.

I’s time to head off your stress at the pass.

If you’re thinking: “OMG, this IS my life!” And " I don't want to make the same mistake twice"

And you're:

ready to name the issues you're quietly struggling with

Wanting real change

Ready to focus on YOU so you can stop feeling out of control

Willing to invest in your emotional health.

THEN CHANGE WILL HAPPEN!! And when it's change that you're driving...it starts to work FOR you and not against YOU.

Investing in your emotional health just might be the single most powerful step you could take and it has a ripple effect that seeps into the cracks of every area of your life and those around you.🦋

If you want to stay in the "Flow" of your life and not let the "dating game" activate worry, doubt and low self-worth..it's time to break free from the cycle of stress and struggle so you can find Mr. Right with eyes wide open.

I have created a self-led Mini-Course called Bring Back the Magic.

I take you through my 3-step breakthrough process to help you lighten your emotional load, get your head on straight so you can see your next steps clearly without the extra added struggle. You'll feel relieved and understand more about why you're struggling.

( p.s. there are layers beneath the surface that you can't see yet)

I'm here to guide you,  Laura

P.S.S. The Dating Game can become more enjoyable once you reconnect with the lost parts of YOU, understand yourself on a deeper level and learn to manage your emotions like a boss... and I've got a few tools, tips and tricks up my sleeve to help you do just that!

Drop me an e-mail and I’ll send you the link to Bring Back The Magic!

My best,

Laura

courses.lauraenzor.com